I have been inspired to write a piece about beauty and what it is perceived to be. I have grown up around many people who tend to judge others based on their physical features. I also know what it feels like to be judged because of my appearance. Growing up, in general, is not easy. The issue I have noticed immensely now a days is the overbearing, misbelief, over-represented idea of what the media, and everyone else, believes what can and cannot be considered beautiful in our world. I tend to overhear something on conversations when I am alone in a public place because I am always fascinated with the conversations that People are having on a daily basis. Sometimes, what I hear something that will shocked me. It move’s me to the point that I am now here writing to attempt and express the horrible belief that people have accepted only a small amount of physical qualities to be deemed as suitable for society’s standards.
As stated before, when I am sitting by myself in a public place I tend to listen on people conversations. I do not mean to be rude, but if I am sitting somewhere quietly studying and there is a loud conversation going on next to me, it is difficult not to pick up on what is being discussed. I think, there are various topics I have heard more than once. One of the most common topics I hear, especially with teenagers, is the amount of “likes” someone has got on their photos that they upload onto the social media. The first time I ever heard this topic being discussed the sentence from someone else,
“Oh my God, she has had their photo up for two hours, and she has only gotten three likes on it.”
It is as if people can judge the worth of somebody’s appearance just from a number of likes they have received. How is it okay to put a person down just because their picture on Instagram or Facebook does not have the proper amount of likes to be considered a beautiful person? Has our world really come to this type of social judicial system?
The other topic I pick up on frequently is one that the social media generation has called “creeping.” Creeping consists of looking at someone’s social media page and going through their photos that they have uploaded and checking out their status updates to see what they are up to. It is basically a way to get into someone else’s life without them even realizing it. Now, the concept of creeping itself is not harmful to anyone. It is the reality of what comes with creeping that begins to judgement in a negative direction. When I have listened to people “creep” others, they tend to say some vulgar things about the person’s appearance. People click through the hundreds of photos someone has uploaded. “Creepers” will think that they have right anything to say about whoever’s photos they are looking at. From a person’s hair to their facial features, to their body size. I have heard these types of sentences many times:
“That is such an ugly picture, why would she upload that?
“Her hair looks really bad in this photo.”
“Why is she standing like that?”
Yes, someone said that word. Unfortunately, I can’t lie and say that these are just made up quotes. These quotes are literal quotes that I have heard, more than once, in my everyday life.
The question that will arise, “why”? Why do people treat others this way? Why is no one ever good enough to just be called a beautiful person? My personal theory on the issue is that people judge others on their appearance when they are jealous of the physical traits another person has. However, I could be wrong.
My belief behind the reasons that all of this happens is the ideas that the media puts into our heads from what they display in advertisements. People see these perfect models being shown as the image of beauty, but people do not understand how shopped advertisements photo truly are. Even major celebrities who are icons for being sexy get photo shopped in their covers on magazines.
A study has been shown that people see roughly 5,000 advertisements in a single day. By seeing that many ads a day, we are bound to have them stick into our minds. Girls when eight years old are now struggling with confidence about their looks because of advertisements and what is perceived to be beautiful. The media says that who and what is attractive and what is not? Confidence is an extremely hard part of our lives to build, so why are people making these rude comments about each other on social media?
Kristen Cullen in a YouTube video about this issue claimed, Because of this issue, more and more people feel the need to get plastic surgery to feel confident and accepted by others. I think that is really unfortunate that, that is how people are feeling. Maybe I am living in a dream world here people. People, especially the media, need to realize that no one on this planet is absolutely perfect.
There are only so many times I can say to people that we are all meant to be different. I could not imagine living in a world where everyone looks exactly the same. It is time that people realize that beauty comes in a wide range of colors, sizes, and brands. I am tired of hearing that my differences are imperfections that should be changed. That is a planet that I would much rather spend my days alive on. Everyone is beautiful.